Betrayed
Tuesday, October 30, 2007
Betrayed Remembered that day that i mentioned that i got a long post to share with you all.. i decided not to wait.. coz i also dunno when the time is ripe.. really bth her...so i decided to share with u guys now..before i start --> just wanna to let her know that - 有因必有果，要至你于死地的人不是我们，而是那个将你所有秘密抖出的神秘人.. Retribution...why we know so much, is coz of yr good khaki...
Here's the post that day:it is now 11 Oct 07 2.30am.. perhaps you may wonder why am i still awake.. bt i think i must record my feelings as at now... i am frustrated.. felt been betrayed and totally disappointed... and i mean absolutely disappointed... i really dun understand why there are such pple ard.. perhaps that's life... there are many kind of pples all around you.. and hypocrites are one of them... till today then i know you hated us so much and especially me.. i am like a barrier to you? and why did boss dislike you? why so-call troubles are been blamed on you? so you think you are such poor thing that have to work late? when i'm not in office, you have to shoulder my work? and pple favours me and not you? i think you have v serious attitude prob then.. 1) if your boss dislike you, there bounds to be valid reasons.. instead of changing your attitude, you began to think the whole world is against you? whoever ask u questions, 99% ans is always - i dunno... 2) yes, i am on seminar yesterday.. and china colleagues called with regards to that document.. and i did get your assistance in this on 1) date the document 2) pass to ceo to sign.. is this v difficult? do you hav to bad-mouth me and tell the whole world that woah, this alicia not in, then this thing was passed to her 1 mth ago, now i hav to do.. damn shit man... hey, search yr soul when u bad-mouthing pple.. you were away for 1 mth study leave.. who helped u that time? frankly i think i have already been 'ren jing yi jing' to you...in work, i have always been fair and neutral to you... a) when u away, who helped u with yr LC? salary stuffs? etc.. and is dating the document and passing the document to CEO such difficult job that u have to complain?b) when yr hire purchase entries cannot tie, who help u to resolve? c) closing of accounts schedule normally is on the 12th.. why do i hav to rush by 10th? coz i wanna give u more time to do consol d) why do i wan to write down yr mistakes? coz i wan u to learn from yr mistakes and prevent it in future... and what do i get when i need yr assistance? from tat time that boss is on maternity leave.. u always so-called 'offer'.. bt how much did you help? i think u turn down every time.. we're a team and sld be working tog.. instead so, i can rem clearly, u leave me on urge last min.. nevertheless, i learn a lesson - 靠人不如靠自己 3) whenever you hav things for hod/ceo, always ask others to help u to pass to them.. coz u dun wanna face the responsibility..?? u scare of been questioned by them? 4) why do troubles get to you? did u asked yrself - did u do yr work properly? did u check yr work? if yes, y so many careless mistakes? 5) so u think u work till v cham... v late? bt i see u ok wat.. msning everyday... msn is ok.. take leave also ok.. as long as u can finish yr work on time, no prob with that... if u say u work late.. how late is yr late? 6 plus everyday? normally i am the last to leave our tat office eh.. after job scope changed, u so called busier.. bt did u need to work till 9 plus everyday? come back on sat and sun for closing? u did none for this and u have to cheek to say u're v busy and ask for extension... well said.. applauded for u... and in personal, we did put in good words for u several times in front of boss - believe it or not... if not, i think u may be sacked long long time ago.. and nevertheless, no need to talk abt recent increment... i felt so stupid to help someone like you.. dumb me... wasted our efforts and our sympathy... hey, come on, despite you like it or nt.. face it... no pain, no gain.. no such thing as enjoying the fruits without giving.. u hav to contribute.. is yr attitude that is going to harm you.. u have to take yr initiative in alot of areas.. to think how u did u revenge on us? nowadays yr lunch khaki is no longer us.. well, is ok with us that u wanna be with yr bf.. do u hav to sound so 'wei qu'? u are the one who abandon us.. nvm.. whenever we are so called alone.. to my surprise, u purposely always say initially u dunno wanna go out or not, then we still worry for yr health, and ask u wanna eat or not.. then u go out happily with yr partners and leave us eating maggi mee.. u hav never offer and ask us to join u.. is ok... nvm or u will say u dunno where that u guys are going for lunch and finding excuse to purposely dun wan to taobao for us? is ok.. we're not going to starve to death like this.. from this, it reflects how childish are u.. when boss is ard, only then u purposely stay to 'show' her.. and u dare to admit this... and understand that, you hav mention that you dunno how to tahan till dec for aws... with so much hatred and sour-eyed.. u still can put on a mask to face us everyday? oscar award sld be yrs then.. i really dun know hw to act in front of u like this.. if i dunno this incident, i may be continue to act neutral, after i knew all these incidents, too bad.. dun blame me for giving u cold shoulders.. coz u are not deserve as been a pal.. most impt i cannot be such a hypocrite as you to face u everyday with a mask... yi xiao ren zhi xin, du jun zhi zi fu.. u jolly well know what u have did to hurt us... well, wat to conclude from this.. jealousy? red-eyed of others achievement? i try to convince myself that i must be good.. ahbo others won't think that i'm a threat to her..lol i felt totally betrayed...好心被狗吃... anyway i have been 行的正，坐得直 .. what u wanna bad-mouthed, go ahead.. as long as i know what i'm doing right.. i will continue to do so.. for those who listen to her story and think that 3 vs 1 definitely the 1 is poor thing - nothing to say.. bt just wanna say.. to be fair, u sld listen to both side of story then...凡事都有两面，千万不要不分青红皂白愚昧的听偏面之词。。。 of course, sometimes i will feel like 哑巴吃黄莲，有理说不清。。。 but what to do, mouth is theirs, just let them say till they 'song' lor.. good luck to u.. with such low EQ and yr attitude, and always adding untrue facts to your words... u sld know where u can attain... Photography Service
Monday, October 29, 2007
Photography Serviceyuppie.. another thing done from my checklist.. we have finally confirmed out photographer.. and he is Kent (Portfolio can be view at http://www.foto-u.com/Wedding_Kent.html)we met up with him on last thursday to view more of his portfolio.. not bad.. and our package is as follows:Premium Solemnisation package @ $350.00For solemnisations held inside ROM premises on weekends or public holidays, or solemnisations held outside ROM premises, or Holy Matrimonies held in churches * 3 hours photography coverage * Unlimited digital capture * All original images in CD return * 1 piece of S8R (8" x 12") collage print * 120 pieces of 4R prints with borders * Deluxe midi wedding album with slip-in pocketsconsidered as expensive? i really dunno.. haha coz so far all the packages that I have checked out is ard this range or 4 digit sum (v extreme ends)... well, i guess is a simple and basic package bah... veron got a greater bargain from her photographer.. for full day photography also 350 bucks.. bt hers is without the printouts.. however, her photographer is not available on 11 nov 07.. so nvm lor.. hopefully our pics turn out nice and we can consider do a collage collection of 8R 18 pages hand-made album for another 300 bucks top-up..read through amy's blog and come across a interesting test:Try this...First, identify yourself as right or left brain person:
1. Hold your hands together, as if you were praying. Look at your hands.If you see
Left thumb is below the right thumb ---> left brainRight thumb is below the left thumb ---> right brain 2. Fold your arms in front of you (as if you are angry)
Right arm above left arm ---> left brainLeft arm above right arm ---> right brainBased on 1+2 (order important), below is the interpretation of your personality: Right-Left Considerate, traditional, indirect type can instinctively read other's emotion, and respond friendly by natures. Although not very into taking initiatives in moving forward, but this person will always take a step back in supporting others. Stable personality and considerate, give others a being protected feeling. But the weakness is they cannot say no; regardless how unwilling they are, they will take care of others.Right-Right: Loves challenges type Straightforward. Once they decided on one thing, will take action right away. Very curious, and love challenges. Dare to face dangers without thinking through (sometimes foolishly). Their weakness is they don't listen to others, will filter in only what whey want to hear in a conversation, and very subjective. However, because of their straightforward attitude, they tend to be fairly popular.Left-Left : Dedicated, cold, perfectionist Very logical in all aspects. The only way to defeat (or win over) him/her is through reasons. Has a lot of prides, and feeling strongly about doing the right thing. If they are your friends, they are very trustworthy. However, if they are your opponents, they will be very tough to deal with. Because they can be very 'anal' as a perfectionist, they usually leave a bad impression of being hard to deal with when first met.Left-Right :Likes to take care of others, leader type Has a cool and keen observation ability to see through situations, yet still can be considerate in others needs. Because of their cool and calm nature, and strong sense of responsibility, they tend to become head of a group. Popular among people. However, they may not be able to help themselves in meddling because they want to take care of others too much. Very concerned about how others view them, and always on alert.I am left-left -> in orange font... haha.. is fun and i feel quite true to me.. keke... Makan @ JuJu Restaurant
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
Makan @ JuJu Restaurant on 21 Oct 2007
hubby come to fetch us in the morning.. we headed to our new hse to let my family see my future hm.. hubby, my bro and my sis even went to the gym to hav a short workout! alemak.. the sales guy still ask us - how's the gym... aiyo, so paiseh...
we even went into the ktv room.. the sound system is fantastic.. is our 1st time to go in there also.. coz the is always locked previously when we visited there..
then after viewing all the show flats, we left there for makan...initially we plan to bring my family to marina square the 'Imperial kitchen' to makan.. i like their xiao long bao and lang mee...
bt we change to juju restaurant last min as my mom choose to go for this instead...
juju restaurant is related to the tao's restaurant.. it is located at paradiz centre there.. the food that they serve is actually Japanese style steamboat... they called it Hokkaido hot pot... bt the way they presented the food makes it so yummy.. and indeed, not bad.. this is the 2nd time that i have visited there..
here are some pics to share...
our appetiser - 75% boiled egg
Hubby's beef platter
Mummy's seafood platter
Bro's chicken platter
My fish platter (ps: my sis also eating fish platter)
my dessert - Mango Sago
My sweet family members.. bro, mom & sis
After makan, my mom, sis & bro went for shopping at bugis junction, whereas me and hubby went to suntec to find our invitation cards for our guests.. we found one that is v nice. however, only left with 1 packet of 10 pieces only.. tat's not enough..
so we headed to orchard instead.. we managed to some v nice designs at taka.. however, again the one we like best is left with 1 packet of 10 pieces also.. so we choose another design instead.. finally, we bought the cards for our guests liao...
we then headed to daniel yam again, as i dunno how to tied the ribbon of my gown.. haha.. so go there and get the sales gal to teach me.. then we went to far east to collect hubby's pants.. done~! now is all ready for dry clean...
Happy Birthday to Mummy~!
Monday, October 22, 2007
Happy Birthday to Mummy~!
last saturday is my mom's birthday... however, our celebration with her is on next day-21st Oct instead of 20th Oct 2007...
bt we still bought a cake for her and sang 3 version of birthday songs for her - english, chinese & cantonese before the clock clicks to 21st oct 2007.. =) coz my mom is working on saturday, thus, by the time she reached home is already 11.30pm...
so wat did i have done during the afternoon then?
we went to june florist... to select on the reception flowers, signing table flowers, slash colours, centrepiece etc.. all these are already included in the package.. basically we are just choosing on the designs and type of flowers that we wan.. as shown in previous blog entry, my table setting is a translucent bronze flower one, so i have chosen chamapgne and white roses to go with it..
on top of this package, we have add on flowers to the signing tables chairs, whereby the bride, groom and witnesses are sitting.. and also, we add additional slash onto the chairs along the march in trail... we also added in 2 flowers stand behind the signing tables... initially i dun wish to add in the flowers stand, bt dear was saying since we are getting professional photographer, better to have some dropback for our photos also.. which is true also lah..
after choosing all the decor, we went on to choose my hand bouquet.. as they are able to send it to my hotel straight, that will save us alot of trouble and time to go down to collect instead..
and i have choosen the below design:
i think this matches my gown cols of both ivory and black.. haha.. is v unique.. it consists of the wire design... is a love at 1st sight of this design to me...
total amount spent at june florist ---> 250 bucks.. florist really knows how to earn money man..
next we headed to chinatown - chinatown centre... to check on our holiday trip.. we went to ctc, chan brothers then to chinatown complex - > sa tours... we wanna go for the 8D korea trip.. we compared the price and compared the schedule that each agency provided..
in the end, we have confirmed our trip with SA tour.. although in terms of price, they are the steepest among all, bt the schedule that it offers is the best and suits to our requirement the most.. each pax cost 1788+288 =2,076 bucks... anyone wanna join us? we welcome that.. we can go together and hav fun... our journey will started from 20 Dec 2007 to 27 Dec 2007.. oh yes, we are celebrating our white christmas there... yeah.. hurray.. i am so so so so excited...
hmm... sevearal things to look forward for this yr:
1) ROM
2) Korea Trip
3) Get keys for my hse
wahahaha... so happy... =)
after we settled with SA, we went for foolt reflexology and shoulder massage at one of the stalls at chinatown complex.. 45mins for only 18 bucks.. shiok man... i love it... will definitely go back again.. maybe will try another stall as there are so many choices there... is a cheaper source than kenzo.. haha..
ROM Shopping
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
ROM Shopping
in less than a month.. is our ROM day... :p
so some of you may asked, how's our shopping so far as we did not signed up any package with any bridal shop to take care for us... everything is 'DIY'..
below is a checklist for me (Pls let me know if I have missed out anything...)
Checklist:
Hers
1) Gown - done -> Posted on blog previously
2) Shoes - done
3) Accessories - done
4) Hair Accessories - done
5) Engaged MUA - done -> Engaged Vreniz Neo
6) Hand Bouquet
His
1) Suit - done
2) Shirt
3) Belt
4) Shoes
Ours
1) Rings - done (got this in last yr...lol)
2) Booked hotel - done -> Grand Copthorne Waterfront Hotel
3) Choose setting for theme - done -> Posted on Blog previously
4) Visit florist to choose flower to match with theme - going tonite
5) Cards for our guests - will try to distribute out 2 weeks before the event
6) Check out photography services
7) Check our Video services
8) Check out holiday package - plan to go Korea after our ROM
looks like there are still alot of things not done yet in this remaining 24 days.. oh dear... lol
share with you guys some of the pics...
Me in Gown (Sorry, my room is v dark)
My Accessories - A Bracelet and Earring in Swarovski crystals.. (Not wearing any necklace due to my swollen neck resulting from Hyperthyroidism)
My Makeup and Hairdo (from 1st Trial Makeup)
really look forward to that day...
Hari Raya Pussa~!
first of all, let me wish all my malay frds - Hari Raya Pussa~! Hope you guys enjoyed yr holidays..
meet up with dear to go to Bishan Hush Puppies to get his shoes.. but dun hav his size also.. :(
went back to his hse to rest after shopping as tonite we are meeting up the gers at DlbO... is been ages since I last went to there.. prob ard 5 yrs? i rem the last time is when i'm still in my poly days.. oh dear...
after resting, we headed to DlbO to meet up with Jujin and Liting 1st.. Meiyan and Raymond joined us soon after we reached and Veron they all joined us after Eugene's company dinner ended... is great to see them all.. a good gathering indeed.. have fun, dancing, phototaking and drinking too... the songs theme is Retro that nite.. reminds me of our Zouk days.. lol
really enjoyed myself tat nite.. some pics to share below.. (I got it from Liting's blog... for more pics, pls check out her blog, as she is the sole distributor of camera tat nite..)
PS: my eyes still look damn sleepy and my hair is so messy.. lol
Our Group Pic
Group Pic (before Veron reached)
Me & Meiyan (Our top col matches!)
Me and Veron (She dressed a gown to club tat nite!)
Me and Liting (sole sponsor for the pics)
Me and Jujin (My MUA for my ROM!)
Me and Dear (Taken when someone try to plays a plank on us, look at the way we laugh.. got abit of fu qi nian man.. eyes small small, smile till tat way... lol)
Happy Birthday to Hubby~!yeah is 11.10.07 - my hubby's birthday... i took leave today to celebrate with him.. but today also is my dad's 祭日 in chinese calender... early in the morning.. he came to my place to pick me up.. coz he said got to go to some hotel.. i was still unable to react.. i dun get it why we hav to go to hotel so early.. we headed to marina square.... then went to marina mandarine hotel for a function... is actually organise by Canon.. celebrating their 70 yrs anniversary... with those products demonstration.. then i asked my dear why he wanna bring me here.. he said coz the sales guy told him got attrative door gift.. something like a printer for each person.. when we got there, no door gift eh.. then quite boring also... then we 2 ran away from the front door.. oh yes front door.. stupid rite... sld run from back door... bt we dunno where's back door ya.. lolin the end, we hav a big time lap to 6pm - our appointment with his family for dinner...so we went for breakfast cum lunch at Mcdonald... after that, we went for shopping.. hubby went to Zara to try a suit.. woah v handsome sia.. bt cost 429 bucks.. so we decided to consider 1st.. coz previously he tried on G2000 black label and Guy Laroche also.. bt we forgotten how the pattern looks like.. so we decided went back to orchard to try on the other 2 suits.. in addition, we need to go a pair of leather shoes for him also..so we went to orchard, tried suits, shoes, shirt etc.... and the final decision was------> to get the Zara suit... the shoes, manage to find 1 design that he likes bt dun hav his size.. so need to go other branch to get.. however, still need to go source for his shirt and belt..at last.. after trying here and there, is finally near to 6pm... so we went to pick up his mom who is working at Orchard too and headed to Grand Copthorne Waterfront Hotel for our buffet dinner... his brother, bro's gf - summer and his sis joined us later.. actually today is also hubby's bro-Trevor's birthday.. oh yea.. both brothers are born on the same day of different yr.. 6 of us went for dinner and pays for 1 person pricing of only 40+ bucks.. haha.. good deal yeah... coz 4 of us is foc as we booked our rom package here, Sheena is kind enough to sign 4 of us in.. the the remaining 2, there is uob promotion going on, 1 for 1 promotion.. so only needs to pay for 1 person...the food is great... yummy... and tat's end our whole celebration... =) Happy Birthday to Hubby & Trevor~! The Day that I felt BETRAYED the day is 10.10.07... long story... anyway i have already written a long entry with regards to this colleague of mine on that day.. she is a damn hypocrite... hope she leave ASAP... i will post the entry when the time is ripe.... till then u guys will know how i feel betrayed, disappointed and frustrated with her moves... hope i can share with u guys soon... Seminar - FRS Updates @ 09/10/07
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
Seminar - FRS Updates @ 09/10/07 went for seminar on above topic yesterday with my boss.. is a whole day seminar from 9-5pm.. i think for this entry, only those who are finance pple then will understand..
my company paid for this course for me.. abt 200+ bucks for this 1 day seminar by Mr Ng Eng Juan (Hopefully i din spell wrongly) who is a famous author of the Master Tax Guide and also a professor at NTU... this course contributes 7 CPE hours..
after this seminar, i really hav phobia in what i'm doing.. and i mean it.. standards are getting more and more difficult to understand, more difficult to apply, more disclosures to be made... then after so much trouble, some of the standards are inconsistent with one another.. really headache...
what did the seminar covered? there are several new frs been issued as FRS 101 to FRS 112.. we go through some of them and also those amendments to existing FRSs... some examples of this new FRS/amendments:
FRS 23 - Borrowing costs - now need to be capitalised.. no longer hav a option to choose to expense or capitalise.. wef - i forgotten hee, i think is 1/1/2009
FRS 41 - Invt properties - the definition is been redefined... and need be captured at F/V and subject to impairment test every b/s date
FRS 102 - share based payments are now made to be v complicated.. depending is whether equity settled or cash settled... and have to be accounted for differently... and for those treasury shares, can be tax-deductible, thus need to be accounted for deferred tax also...
FRS 107 (forgotten is it 107) - Financial guarantees contracts - wef 1/1/2009 have to account in parent's book for guarantee liability if parent is acting as a guarantor...
and many many more changes...
P/L, B/S and etc all have changes to be made with the new FRS that are coming up... really alot alot of things need to consider now...
is really tough to be accountant now... *faint*... fair value here and there.. discounted cashflow to be calculated everywhere... really v v v v v tough...
i am really considering to change to a new profession/career.. lol... i even told my boss i wanna resign before 2009... bt my mom keeps tell me, must hav confidence in myself, afterall this is the profession that i have chosen myself...
anyway, if any of you are interested in the new updates.. i can lend you my notes for photocopy.. is about 3/4 of the arch file thickness... next tue having another seminar on consolidation accounts... (veron, i think i meet you after this class? then i can pass you both notes for photocopying? then we arrange for another meetup for discussion?)
really benefits alot.. i think is a MUST attend course annually for all finance pple... the vol of the changes are scary!
just to let you all know what.. conservative approach is not longer valid in accounting anymore... now must be neutral approach.. *_*
headache...
